Secret Diary of a Call girl at DreamsEscortService.com

To mediocre minded I merely run an escort service. To them we provide a service they can get anywhere and from their model of the world this is true. Unfortunately, for those who share this belief system they do themselves a disservice. Dreams Escorts doesn’t begin with being just a service ladies and gentleman, Dreams Escorts is actually is the philosophical end result.

Let me explain.

Dreams is my vision of what an Agency should aspire to be. It is the result of an unwavering set of principles, which in turn is manifested by myself and the women who join me. This will in three years or less create the reality of being the respected dominant leader in the South Eastern PA, MD and DC upscale escort market. The Agency isn’t “the dream”, the dream is a direct result of my shared vision.

( How existential… confused yet ? Read on… )

One of the many principles we cover in advanced training is the concept of “caring rapport“. People like people who like them. If you genuinely care about a client’s best interest, they honestly feel this and respond on many levels. Now let’s not confuse having someone’s best interest at heart and letting them have their way. Often what we want, is NOT what we need. I’m not implying I train my people to know what you need, no one can tell you what you need. Only the higher power of whatever name you call him/her can do that. What we teach at Dreams Escorts is to handle each client from a place of genuine caring and access your spiritual mind. A Companion who is able to do this will help the client manifest a positive experience. All men carry a crushing sense of daily obligation, expectation and a skilled escort-companion can help him experience the much needed catharsis of release.

This not so simple concept is one of the many things which defines the ever evolving Dreams vision. Not many people stop to think about it, however if you don’t have a vision you don’t have a journey. If you don’t have a journey, there can never be a destination. If this philosophical paradox is true, then I must ask you, what is a life without a destination ?

There are thousands of people in this industry and I would venture to be bold and say 98% of them function from what I call the physical mind. Meaning it’s all about the “physical”, seeing, thinking and judging only from the material or physical standpoint. As human beings when we operate from the material mind we most often come from a place of “it’s all about me“. The most common manifestation of this is “clock watching” and or the complaint “she just wasn’t there“. In many ways this and a few other concepts we teach helps to move the Dreams Escorts vision forward.

One of the things I look for in hiring a candidate is a natural gravitation to functioning with the “spiritual mind” or if you’re a science guy empathy. You see people who are naturally empathetic tend not to function in a world which revolves around the “me” mind set. This is why strippers as a “group” tend to make lousy escorts. In the collective belief system of strippers, (not to be confused with Dancer /Entertainers) customers exist for them to “play you for the maximum amount of cash, you can stung along for. ” A belief system like this and the Dreams collective company moral framework are fundamentally incompatible.

A side note, many escort neophyte agency owners who don’t understand the concept of “human belief systems” and “target audience” try to recruit women to be escorts from
strip clubs. Usually, this turns out to be a bad idea since these inexperienced owners quickly learn a simple truth. We all may be in the Adult entertainment field, but it’s apples and oranges. As clients you may see it manifest as she’s here today and she’s gone tomorrow.

Translation:
She made a lot of money one week and wont be back until she runs out or rent is due. Other manifestations you may see include cash and dash, rushed service with the hurry up and get lost attitude.

Are all adult entertainers are like this ?

No.

Therefore, if it doesn’t apply to you, don’t get a complex over it. I also should point out in MY belief system there is a distinct difference between an Exotic Dancer/ Entertainer and a stripper.

We have a mission statement which says, Creating a New Agency Standard in PA -MD and DC.

This is my vision. This is the dream which every associate signs on to be a part of when I hire them. Did you know when I close my eyes I can see it clearly ? In my mind it’s already happened. Now, I’m just putting on the finishing touches.

“The empires of the future are empires of the mind.”
—
Winston Churchill

Life is a road so be good to your follow travelers and walk in peace ladies and gentlemen.

Lee ^

“I should say up front that I wasn’t abused by a relative, I’ve got no children to support, and I’ve never been addicted to anything.” If that is not enough, add this: “So why do I do it? Well, I love sex, and I love money. And I know you don’t believe I enjoy the sex, but I do.”

That soliloquy, from the opening episode of Showtime’s new series “Secret Diary of a Call Girl,” tries to dismiss in one fell swoop many of the most virulent and frequent objections to prostitution, among them the often-scarred nature of its practitioners and the addiction and exploitation that often fuel the business.

Those words, spoken by Belle, the central character in “Secret Diary,” are directed not at a client, however, but to viewers, as if in anticipation that even in this day of celebrity sex tapes and girls going wild, there is something about prostitution that gives an audience pause.

After attracting the highest ratings ever for an original series on ITV2 in Britain last year, “Secret Diary of a Call Girl” was imported by the pay-cable channel Showtime without change, an unusual import for a mainstream American television channel.

The series is based on a similarly titled book that grew out of an anonymous blog written by a woman who called herself Belle de Jour. A cross between a fake documentary and a light character-driven comedy, the program tracks the life of Belle, played by Billie Piper. Known by her friends and family as Hannah, Belle tries to navigate the line between her personal life and professional persona.

The program, which will make its debut Monday night, is probably less sexually explicit than most R-rated films and even some cable series, like HBO’s “Tell Me You Love Me.” Arriving as it does just a few months after former Gov. Eliot Spitzer of New York put a spotlight on the world of high-priced escort services, the show tries to offer insight into just how a woman might navigate such an environment, what drives her there in the first place and how she maintains relationships with friends and family members.

But if the reaction here is similar to that in Britain, the show is likely to draw strenuous objections from opponents who believe that the series, with its beautiful and empowered protagonist, glamorizes a business that victimizes the women who work in it.

Supporters of “Secret Diary,” of course, dispute that. “I’m pretty sure there isn’t anyone associated with this show who thinks this profession is empowering to women,” said Chris Albrecht, the president of IMG Global Media, whose company produced the program in Britain and who brought it to the United States.

Ms. Piper, a British actress best known to American audiences for playing Rose Tyler in the BBC series “Doctor Who,” argues that as simple escapist entertainment the series should be able to focus on prostitution without being accused of glamorizing inhumanity.

“When you think about ‘The Sopranos,’ that is a story about a man who goes around killing people,” she said in a telephone interview from London, where the program’s second season is being filmed. “You empathize with Tony Soprano because he has this family and this life at home. But the idea that a woman can lie down on her back and be paid for it, that seems to cause so much more of an uproar.”

That uproar tends to be fueled by the often grim statistics that accompany most academic studies of prostitution: high rates of sexual abuse and drug abuse among women who become prostitutes, as well as frequent incidents of violence against sex workers.

None of those unpleasantries are present in the cheery tableau that characterizes “Secret Diary,” however. Here Belle’s biggest problem seems to be the jealousy of an ex-boyfriend who still harbors feelings for her.

After viewing excerpts of the show on Showtime’s Web site, one feminist scholar said that the series seems to want to do for prostitution what HBO’s “Big Love” does for polygamy — presenting a sanitized version of controversial sexual behavior.

The scholar, Laurie Shrage, the incoming director of the women’s studies center at Florida International University, noted that in setting itself in the world of high-priced escorts who court wealthy businessmen and politicians as clients, the series portrays prostitution in “its least controversial form.”

“I think most of the audience will understand that Belle doesn’t represent the average prostitute,” Ms. Shrage said. “But I don’t see that this show is going to do anything positive either” for the profession, given that Belle is portrayed as self-absorbed, selfish and materialistic.

The onscreen depiction of prostitution is not new of course; the 1913 film “Traffic in Souls” won kudos for its examination of the “white slave trade” and more than a dozen Academy Awards or nominations have gone to actresses for their performances as prostitutes.

It is also unlikely to be the last of its kind. Darren Star, the creator of the “Sex and the City” television series, is now writing a script for an HBO pilot, “Diary of a Manhattan Call Girl,” based on the novel by Tracy Quan, herself a former Manhattan prostitute.

With dozens of other books of a similar vein out there — one is by a dot-com call girl, another by an “Ivy League call girl,” with a coming memoir by a woman whom New York magazine called the city’s No. 1 escort — a few more versions seem likely if Showtime’s effort succeeds.

The impression left by reading several of these books is that only happy hookers write memoirs. Ms. Quan, who says that she used her experiences as a prostitute starting at the age of 14 as the basis for her three call-girl novels, said that the dangers faced by high-dollar escorts are more subtle than worrying about getting beat up by a pimp.

“One of the things prostitutes are often most frightened of is being discovered or exposed — losing our business — or losing our looks.”

Which is not to say that the business is glamorous, she added. “Your body is such an important part of the job that every minute of your waking life has to be spent thinking about your health,” Ms. Quan said. “I don’t think that’s a glamorous position to be in.”

ITV has already commissioned two more seasons of eight episodes each of “Secret Diary,” said Andrew Zein, an executive producer of the series. Some of those darker issues that British critics said were missing from the current season are likely to be addressed in the second season, he said.

“Without giving too much away, as one becomes older and wiser, the question naturally occurs: ‘Am I doing the right thing?,’ ” Mr. Zein said.

Ms. Piper added that it was at first difficult for her to understand that someone would enter into the world of prostitution without having some kind of a tragic past. That feeling faded, however, as she talked with the real Belle, who has gained widespread fame in Britain yet still has not publicly identified herself.

“I genuinely believe the character in no way is in an ideal situation,” Ms. Piper said. “That becomes more apparent toward the end of Season 1 and into Season 2. Belle is seemingly in control and selective about what she does, yet she has to face some real moral dilemmas. She can’t tell anybody she loves anything about what she does. She’s on her own, and I think that becomes a massive problem.”

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